I used to love this kind of thinking, and I can believe it for myself. I mean, right from the start, everything WAS rigged in my favor. I got you as a mom. That is absolute proof right there.
And I still experience so much goodness, and “luck” and beautiful happenings that make me feel so grateful and loved.
But what makes me angry is that I feel like everything wasn’t rigged in your favor. That’s what I wanted. Because you deserved everything in your favor more than anyone else. It makes me so sad how the string of events, especially at the end of your life, felt like they were completely opposite to being in your favor. Why did it happen like this?
Why to you? You deserved everything going your way. You helped all of us stay safe, loved, and cared for. It should have been given back to you many times over.
Maybe there is so much in this that I don’t see, that this was all for the good of you, that there were things behind the scenes that were happening that were for the best, the best for you. But I don’t see it. And I don’t know if or when I ever will. Because we just don’t know. We just didn’t know.
And I’m sorry I didn’t know, Mom. I’m sorry I didn’t know how to turn things around for you. I wish I did. I wish I still could.
I hope that somehow, everything is so rigged in your favor now that you are enjoying every moment, peacefully, happily, without any pain, without any worry, without any struggle. Just lightness, just love, just sweetness and warmth and safety. Forever taken cared of. It is how you made me feel, how your love made me feel, always. It still is.