Hi Mom,
I heard this awful news last night- that the gun shots that some people heard a few days ago here in Vancouver were not just real, but also ended up killing someone. A young guy. He was just in his car going to a birthday party.
He had come to Vancouver a couple of years ago to study, and he had never drank or smoked anything. He was just wanting to learn, and save up for a house, and make his family back in India proud.
I still can’t believe someone just came up to his car and shot him. And his roommate, who had known him for ten years, saw his body in the car after the tragic incident. He was in shock. And made it very clear that his friend whose life was taken was not involved in anything criminal. He was a good person, a kind and hard working person. The roommate said his friend would make food for him when he was working, and the roommate would make food for the friend when the friend was working. They took care of each other. And just like that, the friend is gone.
Why do things like this happen?
It made me think about all the times I was out, and you worried. And sometimes, my phone would accidentally pocket dial you, and of course you worried, because a call would come in from me late at night and nothing sensical could be heard.
And then all the times I went away to another city or country, especially when I was studying in England. It was the first time your baby was away from you. Of course you worried. I am so sorry for putting you through that. For not coming up with a better system to reassure you that I was okay. You obviously knew tragic things could happen, like what happened to this boy. And no parent wants to have their child hurt or killed.
I found it hard to even write that last word, let alone imagine what his parents and family are going through right now. Parents are amazing. You are amazing. What you had to just trust would be okay, without knowing who I was with or where I was a lot of the times. You had to trust I would be safe and not harmed. And I wanted to say thank you for dealing with it. You shouldn’t have had to. I should have been a little more considerate of how you felt.
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