Since you’ve been gone, I’ve really hated shopping.
It was our thing, you know what I mean? As much as I wasn’t big into materialistic things, I loved how your face just brightened up whenever you went into a clothing store, or perused some aisles or shelves for something new that caught your eye.
You always were so into shopping for me instead of yourself. I wanted YOU to enjoy the experience and buy something beautiful for yourself to wear and feel good in. Something that would make you feel radiant and elegant and keep that smile on your face that I loved so much. But nope, you always turned it around and made it about me. So selfless. I don’t know how you did it for so long. But I wanted to say that I appreciated it. Really, I look back now and realize that those moments in Capilano Mall, or even way back during the Eaton’s Days- those were OUR moments. I just didn’t know it at the time. Shopping was our thing, because it was your thing. I should have savored it more. Forgive me for moping so much lately when I walk into a shop, no matter how nice the clothes or how big the sale.. It just doesn’t feel the same without you. Continue reading →
I hate this quote that starts, “Those who died yesterday had plans.” I know it’s supposed to make us all stop and think and go out and do all those things that we want to do before it’s too late. Not to take life for granted as it says. But all it does is make me ache at the thought of all the plans you had that week or ten days you were in the hospital. And how I took all of that, and the idea that you would just be here longer, for granted.
It is so painful to think that that day that you woke up and went out in the afternoon with the homecare worker to get groceries, you had no idea that this is how it would all go. That you were going to fall such a painful and devastating fall, right outside your place and end up in the hospital. And even in the hospital, you had no idea that you were going to stay there, and never come home again. I can’t even believe I just wrote that. Continue reading →